Can your sense of style fix your marriage problems? Well, yes and no!

What to Wear Articles June 21, 2016

The saying goes, “If nothing changes, then…nothing changes.” Use a style makeover and a hit of confidence as a catalyst to make some changes in yourself, your relationship, and your situation. The style makeover advice is going to be very similar to the style advice you would receive from a marriage counselor. You need to have communication, respect, and compromise.


While some may see fashion and clothes as frivolous, you can’t deny that fashion is beauty. You wonder why a vase of flowers, a beautiful sunset, or a well-decorated house speaks to you. It is because it is beauty, and human beings are innately drawn to it. Your sense of style is an indication of your willingness to accept beauty for yourself, your relationship, and your life. That’s deep stuff—and you thought this was only going to be about frilly dresses and high-heel shoes. Well, that comes later on in the article when we discuss the specifics about what to wear to fix your sense of style, but there are some things we need to talk about first.



You show others how you want to be treated. So how do you treat yourself? Does your sense of style show that you are someone who prioritizes herself? Does it show that you matter? Does it show that you even give a damn about yourself? What is it that you want to communicate to the world and yourself with your wardrobe? A bad-a** leather jacket says, “Don’t mess with me.” A bold red dress says, “I don’t care what you think of me.” You have to learn what to wear to fix your sense of style and start communicating the right things about yourself.



Does your sense of style show that you respect yourself? Does it say, “Hey, I am worth spending an hour on shopping for myself!” or “I am worth buying a dress for!” Have you disrespected yourself? Having a wardrobe full of clothes that you actually like and enjoy looking at means you have repeatedly made the choice of “I like this, and I choose to bring beauty into my life. I deserve to have beauty in my life.”



Compromise is good up to a point. With many women, it is not only just a compromise; we often compromise too much and wind up losing ourselves. How many times have you said, “I don’t really need this. I can’t wear that. I just need something to wear.” You have repeatedly compromised on what you choose rather than bringing beauty into your life.


If you want to know what to wear to fix your sense of style, then you need to memorize this saying. The saying goes, “If nothing changes, then…nothing changes.” Start by changing yourself. Start by changing your clothes. Start by choosing one really beautiful thing to wear tomorrow—just one thing. One thing is not nothing, so anything can be a change.


♥ AJ


Are you ready for a change? Hell yeah!!!!




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